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| I took this in NYC. It made me smile. |
Well my friends I, like a lot of other people, strongly dislike it. In fact, I hate it. I can't say I have ever been cheated on (and I thank those people); but, I have been that asshole. Once. And that was all down to my own insecurities. Does that make my points on this topic a bit hypocritical? Maybe. What I can say is that even though it was only once, once was already too much. I find with questions like this it all comes back to defining 'what is cheating?'. I've always maintained the stance that cheating is only when you sleep with another person. I will now happily admit that I was wrong. I, in my infinitely growing bank of useless wisdom, define it as 'emotional want for another person'. Whether that turns physical or not, it's cheating. It just seems to hurt more when it's physical because there's somewhat tangible evidence. I also have mixed opinions on loyalty and 'committing yourself to one person', because I don't believe it should ever have to feel like that. Maybe I'm just being a Pisces, but, it should be effortless shouldn't it? If the person you're with makes that much of an impact of your life then it shouldn't feel like a battle with your brain as to who comes first. It should just be. Well, that's what my intuition tells me anyway. So, my opinion on cheating? It exists in relationships that weren't right from the start. If you cheated you need to stop, slap yourself repeatedly, and address what's missing in your life to make you act like such a dick. If someone cheated on you, LEAVE THEM. They have issues beyond what you can help them with. And, you already know this but, you deserve better - much better. Wait for it to feel effortless.
Morgs
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